Planning A Family Trip

 

 

Our family has made an impromptu move from Scotland back to our nearly two year home on the beautiful island of Phuket. We’re enjoying the sun and I have missed the spicy food like crazy. Billy is filling up on coconuts all day long to the point where he may actually have an addiction ( albeit a healthy one).

We’ve moved twice in the last two years. We had no idea that we would need to leave the UK in order to figure out Billy’s visa situation. Nonetheless here we are and I must say, I am hoping to eventually get a little one on one time with my husband at some point before we have our next baby. We have wanted to add another Bradley to our growing family for some time now, but Billy and I have had virtually no time together ever since Kaya was born. We’ve never had a babysitter,ever! And as much as I enjoy us being three peas in a pod, I hope that at some point in the near future he and I will have a little vacation to ourselves while grandma babysits our now 5 year old.

Recently I stumbled across a new travel site that we may use when we begin planning our one day trip. Happiness Included is a bright and cheerful site that helps families or couples plan their gettaway, whether it be short term or something lengthy. On the homepage, you select what type of trip you are looking for ( romantic gettaway or family travel) and you can sync it to your Facebook page to make the experience more personalized. It then takes you through a virtual reenactment of what your trip would be like, which I found to be quite cute. You can select ‘Island Hopping Adventure’ and it takes you to virtual paradise, which is a brilliant idea for people who have never been to say Thailand and want to get a little taster of what it will feel like to be here. It’s almost like a video game actually, for those of us with wanderlust! After the video ends, you have a chance to enter to win a holiday to Thailand, which I can tell you isn’t a bad idea!

I’m not sure when Billy and I will have time to plan a trip, but I’m glad I found this great resource and travel planner as it gives me an idea of what I’m looking for. Happiness Included is absolutely worth checking out if you have any travel planning to do or just want to take a moment and pretend you are here in Thailand.

Home Budgeting Tips for Families

Every middle class family feels that there is too much month left at the end of each month. Running a household on a limited income is not easy, unless you try to budget well. Whether you’re a new family or a growing one, chances are that you’ll face the regular financial hurdles if you don’t properly work on your budgeting. In the following article we will be looking into a few tips on how you and your family can make the most out of the current household income. And even save a little before your next paycheck arrives…

#1: Understand Your “Nut”

The “Nut” is a business term which is nothing but the amount that you should be paying each month to meet any “fixed” expenses. Even though we’re talking about home budgeting here, this term perfectly applies to it. First off, if you still haven’t done it, you should take a month in order to note down and record the amount that you spend on regular necessities such as electricity, gas, insurance, rent/mortgage, etc.

In case your “nut” is exceeding your current monthly income then you’ve got a problem that you need to immediately take care of. You’ll have to look for ways to cut down on your expenses such as moving to a cheaper neighborhood. And in case you’ve got money left after you pay your “nut” you can use it for additional expenses such as buying furniture for your home using a discount coupon such as the World Market promo code.

#2: Know that Cash is King

When you’ve got a bunch of credit cards lined up, it’s easy to whip one out and make a small purchase. This destructive habit exists in many families today and if not fixed early it not only leads to painful interest charges but also makes it difficult for you to keep track of your spending. Every family needs to realize the fact that cash is king. If you’re a mother, you should know what it takes to shop for clothes without breaking the bank – and it all starts with using cash instead of plastic money. When you pay using cash, you not only save money on interest but also are able to avoid impulse shopping.

#3: Clip Those Coupons

Newspapers are still read widely and they still carry plenty of discount coupons. Most of your local publications and mailers carry these, and you can also find them online. You can use these whenever you can to save money on products/services that you normally buy. The key here is to reduce or bring down your outlay and not boost/increase your consumption. The more intelligently you use coupons on a regular basis, the more savings you’ll make in the long run.

Every family needs to look for better options when it comes to home budgeting, from finding better parking options at LAX when you’re flying out of town to making smaller financial adjustments/compromises at home. A lot of families don’t fret on the small stuff when it comes to saving without realizing that the smaller expenses eventually add up to bigger ones. So without making that mistake, start utilizing the above tips that we discussed for better and more effective home budgeting.

Top Reasons to Enjoy a Family Getaway to Lapland

 

As well as being the home of Santa Claus, Lapland in Finland offers many attractions for families. From the iconic reindeer to the Northern Lights, there is much to see for adults and children alike.

 

As Lapland is near the Arctic Circle, it is very cold in the winter months. With snow covering much of the region, appropriate clothing is a must. The hours of daylight are far fewer than more southerly countries. While this may seem to be a disadvantage, it helps when trying to see one of Lapland’s top attractions, the Northern Lights. This haunting display in the night sky is best seen from the northern latitudes, where light pollution is minimal.

 

A popular way to see some of Lapland’s beautiful forests is to take a husky sleigh ride arranged by one of the many tour companies in the area. Parties of visitors are taken to the starting point and given thermal clothing, as it gets very cold out in the forest. At the start, there are hundreds of husky dogs waiting to be harnessed, usually six to a sleigh. The dogs are extremely well-behaved and very good with children, but they are very loud and eager to get going. Each sleigh has a driver and one passenger, although the former does not do anything other than urge the dogs onward. The huskies know the route and will follow the teams in front. Children should sit in the passenger seat and an adult steer the sleigh. One thing to be aware of is that the dogs are very enthusiastic and will shoot off without the driver if given the chance. Thankfully, there are members of staff along the route to help anyone in trouble.

 

Another way to experience the snow-covered landscape is by sleigh. Children are always eager for an exciting reindeer sleigh ride and, unlike the husky sleds, a family of four can go on one of these trips together. These tend to be short, lasting well under an hour, but visitors can also meet a real reindeer at the end.

 

No family visit to Lapland would be complete without a trip to see Santa Claus in Saariselkä. This village offers a range of activities for families. In addition to the types of sleigh rides mentioned above, children can meet Santa and his helpers in a log cabin or out at specially-built igloos in the forest. Snowmobile safaris are also available, with a special sledge for children attached to one of the vehicles.

 

Lapland has a lot to offer the entire family, particularly children. Adults may go skiing while the younger members can engage in some tobogganing. Other highlights like the Aurora Borealis appeal to all of the family, making it the perfect destination for a family getaway.

 

A return to humidity

Phuket

I can sum up my sentiments right now with three words: I HATE visas. I do, I hate them. They are never fun. Whether it was when we went to the Chinese consulate in LA to get our visa for China, or when we had to do visa runs in Thailand. Sure, some visas look lovely in one’s passport and I am proud by the amount of stamps and what not in both of mine. Nonetheless, after dealing with the spousal visa here….my frustration has grown.

Let me start at the beginning: for about two years I have been in touch with Talent Scotland, which had a free service to advise people looking to move to Scotland. Initially it was just to find out a few things, aka fact finding. But when we finally decided to make the move, I had specific questions about Billy’s ability to get a visa. Repeatedly I was told no big deal, he can get the spousal visa when he arrives OR in Bangkok. I think great, makes sense. I mean I’m British and we’ve been married nearly 7 years. He has no criminal record or whatnot. His ancestors are even Scottish.

Then we arrive at Inverness Airport after a long few days of traveling from Thailand and get this: immigration says nope. Sorry, he had to do it BEFORE you came. 40 minutes later, we were let through but I tell you, I was irate. Absolutely irate. She told us I can stay, I’m British, but no, my daughter and husband would have to leave after their visitor visa is up. We went back and forth about it and she was helpful more than difficult, giving us info on what had changed and how there is a point system and that he is still non EU so….

I’m not going to get into it, but yeah, it wasn’t what we had been told and indeed there is a point system and no, it can’t be applied for within the UK. So we had to come up with a back up plan fast, while on a budget. We decided that near the time his visa would run out we would go back to Thailand, as we had to get our things anyway and had a few things to do there. Hence we are getting ready to yes, go back for who knows how long.

Thankfully, I am not mad anymore about the spousal visa or the stupid point system that could potentially break families apart ( imagine he missed too many points and was told he and my 5 year old had to leave….). No. I am over it because we found all of this out right upon arrival, literally. Instead of dwell, we talked with a solicitor who gave us some great advice and decided to just stick with building up his business because at the end of the day, that’s what really matters right now as it gives us the location independance we want. It gives Billy time to be at home with his family more.

We have been working practically 24/7 to learn everything it takes at becoming a successful entrepreneur, from marketing ( which is a weak point for many businesses) to product creation and everything in between. I am eternally grateful for friends near and far who have motivated us and kept us going, despite all the drawbacks.

Have we enjoyed our time here? Yes and no. It was the perfect place to be for a few months and then we grew bored of the isolation, rarely leaving town and only going to Inverness on occasion, since we are sans vehicle. It is a magical town steeped in history. It isn’t however very welcoming towards homeschoolers, as most of the sentiment has been that the school in town is good, so Kaya should just go there, end of story. But apart from that ( and the cold) Cromarty has been breathtaking and beyond welcoming, in many respects. Our daily trip to the bakery is always met by smiles and discussion about life and the joy of traveling ( the owner is a dual citizen).

My Mom on the other hand didn’t fair well here during her stay; going from LA to a town of 1000 was challenging, to say the least. Our entire family has missed Thai food rather badly!

If we come back to the UK, where will we live? Most probably a little closer to our friends and family in England ( maybe Oxfordshire??) or perhaps Edinburgh will lure us into its grasp.

I am not focused on where we will be in 6 months. I am content to just have my family together and have my husband doing what he loves to do: help people become healthier. I am overjoyed by the people I have met here in Cromarty as well as through the Digital Nomad Academy, Fizzle, and the Amazing Life and Biz Academy.  Thank you Corbett Barr for your support and advice!

I will update you more on life and our visa adventures ( GRRRRRR) once we arrive in Phuket and I have a mango smoothie in my hand.

Three Incentives to Visit Oman This Summer

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Three Incentives To Visit Oman This Summer

 

Oman sits amongst a gorgeous landscape of sunbaked sand dunes and beautiful beaches.  This unique vacation destination is a perfect combination of two ancient and completely different cities.  To the north, you’ll find metropolitan Muscat.  To the south, you’ll find the more languid Salahah.  And right in the middle you’ll find 1000km of tall mountains and sandy desert separating them both.

 

There are many reasons why you should visit Oman on your next vacation, but below are three destinations that you definitely need to see if you plan on visiting this beautiful country.

 

 

The Lost City Of Ubar

Just the name itself is so incredibly enticing that more and more tourists are flocking to this destination each and every year.  Ubar, also referred to as “Iram” (a city of pillars) was first mentioend in the Quran over 1400 years ago.  On this land the King Shaddad was said to have defied all warnings from the prophet Hud, and as a result God destroyed the city and drove it under the sands.

 

Thanks to archaeologists and NASA, in the early 1990s the “lost city” was uncovered.  Though there is some dispute as to whether the currfent location of this lost city is, in fact, the Iram mentioned in the Quran, it’s still exciting to see the artifacts and buildings that have been buried under the desert sands for the past hundreds of years, as well as to imagine what else may possibly be hidden.  Make sure that you bring plenty of travel money, but you can get some help from the Omani Travelex and use their currency converter service. It’s definitely a good sign for Oman’s tourism that Travelex have moved into the neighborhood.

 

 

Sultan Qaboos Grand Mosque, Muscat

From miles away you’ll be able to see the glowing Sultan Qaboos Grand Mosque, situated right in the heart of the capital Muscat.  The consstruction of this grandiose building took over 6 years and covers well over 400,000 metres of space.  The mosque was designed to be able to accommodate 20,000 worshippers, 6500 of which can fit into the main prayer room.

 

What stands out most about the mosque is the large, glowing dome which rises 50 metres up from the floor.  This alone makes it worthwhile to stop by during the evening or night time hours so that you can enjoy the beautiful lighting and design of this masterpiece.  If you do plan on visiting, non-Muslims can stop by any time apart from Thursdays and Fridays from 8:30 to 11:00am local time, and all visitors are asked to dress modestly (and women must cover their hair before entering).

 

 

Mughsayl Beach, Salahah

If lounging by the beach is your thing, then you cannot miss out on visiting Mughsayl Beach.  Filled with banana plantations and coconut groves that grow right to the very edge of the water, this area is full of world class beaches that are perfect for swimming, snorkeling, and a number of other water activities.  If you happen to travel there during the rainy season, you’ll be in awe of the crashing waves and explosive blowholes.

A Trip To Jamaica


 

Let’s get together and feel all right. It’s a famous line from Bob Marley’s reggae anthem One Love, One Heart. It’s also what we were thinking when we spontaneously invited our friends on a couple’s luxury holiday to Montego Bay, Jamaica. However, now that I’m sitting on the beach in MoBay, I can’t seem to escape this Bob Marley song; in the taxi, at the bar, not to mention the spa, the song has been worming into my ear ever since I got off the plane. The same can be said for my friends. Everywhere I turn, they’re there; there’s no peace, no quiet, no escape. Their goofy smiles, straw hats and earmarked guidebooks tell everyone on Doctor’s Cave Beach that this is their first time to Jamaica. If you’re flying from Gatwick, check out Gatwick valet parking for competitive prices!

Here are some words of advice. Before you insist that everyone get together and feel all right, Jamaican style, seriously consider what that’s going to entail. Taking a holiday with another couple can be tricky. What may seem like a good idea in a London flat after a nice dinner and a couple of pints might backfire as soon as you feel the warm sand between the toes. Then again, it might be a dream holiday. In other words, it’s a crapshoot. The cabana bar is finally playing a new song. It’s Damian Marley’s Welcome to Jamrock.

We’ve been spending our days alternating between Doctor’s Cave Beach and Walter Fletcher Beach. Parasailing and snorkelling are the highlights of beach life, not to mention the games of dominoes, a Jamaican pastime our friends have taken a liking to. We’ve decided the dirty banana is the best frozen drink ever invented. If I attempted to figure out how many bananas I’ve actually eaten on this holiday, the number would be astronomical. In the evening, we hit Gloucester Avenue. This is MoBay’s hip strip. From funky Rasta boutiques to jerk chicken stands, there’s a little something for everyone. Our friends have finally put away the guidebooks and are going with the flow.

We spent two days sightseeing around the island. First, we took an excursion to Ocho Rios to see Dunn River Falls. The next day we went to the Bob Marley Centre and Museum, which is located in a place called Nine Mile. It’s both the birthplace and resting place of the reggae legend. As soon as I walked into the museum, I heard the song. In fact, maybe Jamaica has trademarked One Love, One Heart. I looked over at my friends. We were all together. We were feeling all right.

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Life on the Black Isle

Cromarty
Cromarty
Cromarty
Cromarty
Countless motorcycles, exotic scents, and foreign languages have been quickly replaced by absolute quiet and calm. The roaring heat and humidity were lost on our journey and now it’s cold 24/7 and the sun sets at around 3:30. It also refuses to rise until about 11AM. Not kidding.
Do we miss Thailand? Every day and we always will.
But we adore our little home in Cromarty. I think it’s the best home base for us ( although let’s just say Phuket was a close second). What we really, really, really wanted we have gotten, which was access to a homeschooling network, a welcoming and open minded community, and business opportunities, as well as a thriving arts scene. That last point was absolutely not found in Phuket, and you can ask any Phuketian that. If you want arts, you go to Bangkok or Chiang Mai. Not Phuket. Not Pattaya.
In almost every picture I take, we are the only ones in it, causing my mother to ask ‘Are you the only people there??’ No we aren’t. She then asks, since she knows me pretty well ‘ Well do you like it that quiet?’ For me that’s a complex question. Because I am someone who craves both the quiet, nature filled life as well as the fast paced city dwellers atmosphere. Hey, I’ve lived in LA for nearly 9 years and it tainted my small town perspective. I thrive when there is diversity.
But I’m also a writer and homeschooler, and for those two facets of my being, this life is where we thrive. I see Kaya skipping when we’re outside. No longer are there tons of giddy women flocking to the farang child and trying to pinch her cheeks ( which, she utterly despised…I thought it was cute lol). She feels calm and at the same time excited. And I love seeing her like that.
Billy is perhaps the most at home of all of us, which I find amusing. The Cromarty Cheese shop is run by a Dutch-British couple, the husband of whom is also a director. So if all goes well, Billy will take part in the play come April.
Inverness is the closest big city, and as you can guess fellow travelers, it’s nothing like Edinburgh. It has a very different vibe. It’s gorgeous of course. And it isn’t far, only about an hour by bus. Granted, bus fair is expensive.
We haven’t explored much at all, most of our days are spent inside our warm home which was one a large hemp factory. We love our fireplace, our kitchen, and the maritime feel of the whole town. It’s actually the most picturesque place I have ever been to in the UK.
Adventure loving Grandma Kelsey will be arriving at the end of the month, and we are going to do our best to convince her to stay. She hasn’t lived in the UK since she was 17, so it will be nice for her to move back to her home country. Although I must admit, my mom is more American now than I am ( if I hear about the Kardashians one more time…)

Our apartment in Amsterdam

apartment in Amsterdam Wimdu
Our journey from Phuket to Europe was long, to say the least. Although the nearly 13 hour flight from Phuket to Frankfurt with our 4 year old went smoothly ( in other words, it wasn’t a living nightmare), the stress of having to keep her occupied for that long had worn me out completely. It’s both physically and mentally taxing, although worth it. Frankfurt airport felt morose and sterile and after getting yelled at for taking a photo of a pretzel ( seriously!!) we were looking forward to heading over to Amsterdam, where we had booked an apartment via Wimdu.
When we took our last flight of the day from Frankfurt to Amsterdam, we absolutely couldn’t wait to check out our temporary abode. Despite my loving hotels, I’ve found through the years that it can be very challenging to stay at some when one has small children. Even if a hotel says it is ‘family friendly’ it doesn’t mean it truly is. Plus, checking in while entertaining a little one and trying to watch the bags and fumble in your pockets for your wallet, reservation printout, etc can be annoying to say the least.
Which is why I was ecstatic when I found out about Wimdu. I had looked for hotels in Amsterdam for about 10 minutes before realizing that it was going to be very expensive. I found Wimdu around the same time that I began my hotel quest and after a search on their site, I found a dozen relatively inexpensive, spacious and upscale looking apartments not far from the airport and close to public transportation. I was over the moon!


We finally made our choice and picked a large one bedroom apartment that was family friendly and offered airport pick up for a small fee. Perfect! We arranged pick up and drop off with our new ‘landlord’ and then looked forward to our stay.
After we picked up our bags, we were met by Jack who had a large sign with my name on it. He was incredibly friendly and helpful and led us to his car. He assisted us with everything, and once we arrived at the apartment, he gave us a brief tour.The bright and spacious apartment had a huge flat screen TV, a charming kitchen that was just begging for me to cook, a washing machine and drier, as well as a bedroom. There was an additional bed set up in the living room, next to the enormous patio door.
The owner had gone to the trouble of leaving us with some food, which included some of the best cheese Billy and I have ever had ( we agreed on that). I was worried that since we would be arriving late, perhaps no restaurants would be open, so this added touch to our stay really was helpful!
The next day, we wandered around the neighborhood, did some laundry and used the free wifi. It was fantastic to say the least and gave us all a chance to attempt to rest and relax. Jack returned in the late afternoon to pick us up and take us to yet another flight ( the final one thank goodness) and I was sad to be leaving. Our drive to the airport confirmed this, as we all stared at amazement at the architecture and scenery. I posted photos on Facebook and my friend Connie ( whose husband is from Holland) inquired about our stay.
When we said goodbye to Jack I was momentarily sad as we really enjoyed meeting him and would have loved to have taken him out for dinner and gotten to know him better. He and the apartment owner Agje had really made sure we had a good time and it left a lasting impression on us. I assured him we would absolutely be coming back!

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